Showing posts with label accountability. Show all posts
Showing posts with label accountability. Show all posts
Tuesday, November 25, 2025
Casting All Our Cares
I was reading in a devotion about 1 Peter today where he says, "casting all your care upon Him (God), because He cares for you." The devotion author mentioned about the verb cast and notated two different ways to cast. You can cast a fishing rod where you will reel it back in to yourself. You can also cast a rock into the water where it will remain, never to be picked up again. It made me wonder how I cast my cares upon the Lord? He wants me to cast them upon Him like I would throw a rock in a pond - never to be retrieved again. However, do I? It seems too frequently, I cast them upon Him as if I'm throwing out my line to fish, only to reel it back in again and try to handle it myself. I had never really thought about it that way. Had you? The key to why we do that is found in the previous verse. It says to humble ourselves under the mighty hand of God. In order to cast it like a stone, we have to humble ourselves, admit that we can't handle the burden, only God can. From now on, I'll approach my time of supplication differently. I'll be more purposeful about casting my cares upon the Lord like I'd skip a stone across water, never to take it up again. I hope you will too.
Monday, January 28, 2019
Dross & Tin
Isaiah 1:25
And I will turn my hand upon thee, and purely purge away thy dross, and take away all thy tin:
And I will turn my hand upon thee, and purely purge away thy dross, and take away all thy tin:
This verse struck a cord with me when I read it. In fact, in my notes, I asked myself the question, “What is my dross and tin?” You may wonder what in the world dross even is. Dross is all the impurities that separates off of silver when it is refined in the fire. When the silver is pulled out of the fire, all that’s left is pure, shiny silver. We also know that tin is a silver impostor. It is shiny like silver, but it easily rusts. It can put up a temporary front from afar, but upon close inspection & a few storms, you can easily see it is not what it appears to be. And so we as Christians can behave.
The dross in your life is what you’re dragging around with you that prevents you from being all God has planned for you. You know, that stuff you won’t let God have? Part of mine is insecurities from my past. It can be guilt, shame, sin, lies from Satan you’ve bought like they were 10 for $10 at the grocery. Anything that prevents us from being able to reflect the Light of Christ as brightly as we can. Now here is the amazing thing about God and His relationship with us. He wants us to be the purest, shiniest silver ever to reflect His light to the world. Because of this, He will send us through the fire to remove this dross from our lives, and we come out so much better for it. For Him. Proverbs 25:4 tells us, “Take away the dross from the silver, and there shall come forth a vessel for the finer.” So while the fire is tough, you’ll be a vessel for the finer coming out!
We also need to monitor ourselves for tin in our lives. Tin is those things you do or say that have the appearance of being for God, but really are for yourself. Sometimes this is related to our dross. For example, with these insecurities that the Lord is slowly refining away, I sometimes think I need but actually only want to know I’m doing a good job at fill in the blank. I don’t need to know this. I want to know this to feed my own insecurities so I end up going beyond the extra mile. Not for God’s glory but to hear or feel like I’m doing a good job. That is tin. Paul tells us in several places that we’re to do all things to the glory of God and not for man. I had a lesson on that just this week and am working to throw that tin in the trash, not to be recycled! I praise the Lord for a wonderful friend who sharpens my iron!
What dross & tin is in your life? Are they interconnected? Let the Lord throw you in the fire for a bit and see how you come out for the finer.
Friday, September 14, 2018
What We Need Is Grace
There is a lot going on right now in this world. Most of it is surrounding being easily
offended and being “intolerant”. What is
going on? You can’t voice your opinion
without making people mad, friends unfriending each other on Facebook, or
relationships being damaged. What has
happened? We have disregarded grace
along with the One that provides it.
First, we have to receive grace to fully be able to give
it. How do we do this? Ephesians 2:4-5 and 8-10 reads:
4But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, 5Even when we were dead in sins, hath made us alive together with Christ, (by whose grace you are saved;)
8For by grace are you saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 9Not of works, that any man should boast. 10For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath prepared that we should walk in them.
Here we can see that we receive grace from God when we put
our faith in Jesus Christ. What is
faith? Faith is to have confidence in
the testimony of another. Therefore, to
have faith in Jesus Christ, you must have confidence that He is who He said He
is – God in the flesh, Redeemer, Son of God, propitiation for our sins, and too
many more to list. If you have faith in
Christ then you receive God’s grace.
What is grace? Grace
is unmerited favor. Let’s take a look at
that equation then:
Confidence in the testimony of Jesus Christ = Unmerited
favor with God
Pretty simple.
Let’s take this a step further then. This is the amazing part! God doesn’t just grant us His grace so we can
have eternal life. He gives us this
grace (and love) so we can give it to others.
He expects us to do this and provides us with an unending supply. Take a look at 2 Corinthians 9:8:
And God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that you, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work.
Also look at Ephesians 4:29
Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
We can see in both of these passages that God grants us
grace so we can abound in it and minister it to those around us.
When we lack in grace, it is because we’re not plugged into
The Source, and then we become focused on tolerance. The definition of tolerance is to accept or
endure (someone or something unpleasant or disliked) with forbearance. Wait!
What? Tolerance doesn’t change my
opinion or view of you or your actions.
I simply keep my mouth shut. I
don’t want that from people, and I don’t want to behave that way toward
others. I want to give and receive
grace.
To really see the difference, let’s dig into the definition
of grace – unmerited favor. Unmerited
means we don’t deserve it. I know I have
those days that I’m not on my best behavior or I may have views we can’t agree
on or I may have some sin in my life that bothers you. That all makes it unmerited. What is favor? Favor is overgenerous, preferential treatment. Now read the definition of tolerance
again. Which do you prefer?
Now don’t get me wrong that offering grace does not mean
that people get a free pass to live with sin in their lives. A piece, if you will, of that grace is loving
someone enough to hold them accountable for their actions. To see what God sees in them, and challenge
them in love to be that person. That may
include calling sin out in their life.
That does not mean you are not offering grace, but rather you want God’s
very best for their life.
Over the past couple years, I’ve had the privilege of having
a boss and a friend that has filled this role in my life. While some conversations are hard to process,
I am so thankful for them. They have
seen something in me that I had never saw and challenged me to reach higher,
have more faith, trust more, and be bolder.
I am so thankful they didn’t just tolerate me where I was. I am so much better for it.
Next time someone calls something out in your life, don’t
cry for tolerance. Prayerfully search
your heart with God’s guidance to see if they’re not actually offering grace
and love through accountability. It
could change your life...and your eternity.
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